Our inner critic
We screw up - he jumps our ass..., tells us how pathetic we are
We do good - he tells us we could have done better
vs.
Our inner supporter
We screw up - he tells us to forgive our self..., fix it..., move on..., do better..., we'll be okay
We do good - he tells us good job!!! congratulations!!!! do it again!!!!
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Both cannot coexist in the same inner space
Best we chose wisely..., the one we hang out with
RN
My understanding/belief is that we can not ignore the inner critic. It will only grow stronger as it tries to demand we pay attention to it. Instead we acknowledge the inner critic and it's concerns and let it know that we understand that it has the same goal as us and is trying to help us but is using a different approach. We thank it and explain how our approach of patience and acceptance will work. Treat the inner critic like a small child. That's my recap.
But enough metaphysical BS. More Beer !!

Checking back later but got trades to log including yesterdays and some office/real work to do.
Yeah. mixed bag today.