To all the advice givers,
To give ones opinion and attempt to correct others faults is an important thing, it shows compassion and can be of great service... BUT it is an extremely difficult thing to do...
To give the good and bad points of a person/trader is an easy thing to do, and to throw advice their way is also an easy thing to do... People mainly feel they are being kind and doing a good thing... BUT one must first take the time to judge how well the advice will be recieved! If the person you are giving advice to is not of the disposition to recieve it, then it will be worthless... And whats worse is that you will inadvertantly bring shame to the person, it is comparable to slandering him in public...
1) Try to become close with the person
2) Make sure the person continualy trusts your words
3) When speaking of subjects that are dear to the person try and seek the best way to speak and be well understood
4) Judge the occasion and assess if the right time is the present or after he gets kicked in the teeth
5) Praise his good points
6) Maybe try and use your own faults as an example instead of touching on his, but in such a way that they may occur to him
To correct ones faults is a service, but to give advice to someone who is not of the dispostion to recieve them or simply does not value or trust your words can be of great disservice
Hitman,
In my experience it is has been to my benefit to just graciously accept there kind attempt, but discard what they say... If you come back rudely they may not ever attempt again and I have recieved some of the best advice from people who I never dreamed would have anything to teach me...
PEACE and good trading to all,
Commisso
To give ones opinion and attempt to correct others faults is an important thing, it shows compassion and can be of great service... BUT it is an extremely difficult thing to do...
To give the good and bad points of a person/trader is an easy thing to do, and to throw advice their way is also an easy thing to do... People mainly feel they are being kind and doing a good thing... BUT one must first take the time to judge how well the advice will be recieved! If the person you are giving advice to is not of the disposition to recieve it, then it will be worthless... And whats worse is that you will inadvertantly bring shame to the person, it is comparable to slandering him in public...
1) Try to become close with the person
2) Make sure the person continualy trusts your words
3) When speaking of subjects that are dear to the person try and seek the best way to speak and be well understood
4) Judge the occasion and assess if the right time is the present or after he gets kicked in the teeth
5) Praise his good points
6) Maybe try and use your own faults as an example instead of touching on his, but in such a way that they may occur to him
To correct ones faults is a service, but to give advice to someone who is not of the dispostion to recieve them or simply does not value or trust your words can be of great disservice
Hitman,
In my experience it is has been to my benefit to just graciously accept there kind attempt, but discard what they say... If you come back rudely they may not ever attempt again and I have recieved some of the best advice from people who I never dreamed would have anything to teach me...
PEACE and good trading to all,
Commisso