Trading is not for the faint of heart, or conservative people -- if you're the kind of person who hates Vegas/casinos...because you're 'smart' and rational and logical...then you won't succeed in this game.
The market rewards those who are bold and who have foresight. -- But this is not to imply to be stupid ambitious.
I'm anti-paper trading too...but I also feel you should study/follow/paper trade in your Mind...for a minimum of a month
Before you jump in and pay your so-called dues.
There's a fine line between learning to swim/trade and being stupid;
Most people only have one life, or one trading acct, to attempt to grow...if they fail, it's game over trading world for them.
"Money's tight, nothin' free,
Won't somebody come and rescue me?"