If you showoff, it's because you want it. -- It's like that in the basic nature world of mating.
I hate women who say I like to wear sexy pretty clothes, but I hate the attention/looks/flirts/sexual harassment/rape.
Like most things in life...form meets function, and vice versa. Don't be so innocent and naive of how the world works.
Men showoff too...with working out. and fancy clothes as well. and sports cars, and watches. and dick pics, and enhancements.
People are hypocrites and fickle.