Quote from nutmeg:
"If I wanted to be a champion boxer but lacked the strength or speed and got knocked out in the first round every time, soon I would abandon boxing for other interests."
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Typical excuse for a loser. Why bother? If boxing is an analogy to life or a job or schoolwork, maybe I'll find other "interests" like crime or public assistance. Everybody gets an "A" in class, will this help?
It really depends on who in your life is important to guide you. If you are telling yourself, judging your own aptitude, then maybe that is the all you can do. But until you find someone who believes in you, you shouldn't give up without a second opinion. A knock down in the first round can be a motivator or make you a quitter.
Too many kids try something once, lose and say I'm not any good at it. "At least I tried" they say. I call bs, until someone who is better than you tells you, you've done everything you can and then are not very good at it, well then, perhaps you have learned something and gained another asset, then quit.
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"We tend to like what we are good at and successful at and persist in such activities, and dislike and avoid activites that we are no good at."
This may be human nature but until you conquer what you aren't good at but necessary, you have no yardstick on what you can really accomplish.
Example, If you are a right handed boxer, what needs work? The left hand. Suppose you avoided using your left hand because it is not as strong? Well, back to square one, applying yourself to what you are not good at.
You could always teach Boxing.
I am not aware of any pro football coaches that were all pro football players. Don't have to be the best to teach something.
