Is it Wise For a Trader to Move to Los Angeles for a Girl?

riddler · Jun 30, 2013

She is a dancer and a model and shares the same morals as you? I guess that means you have the morals of an alley cat. This chick will be doing porn in no time, mark my words. I just hope you can be the dude she is acting with. Be careful, this chick can be dangerous but very fun at the same time. If she invites you over and one of her friends are there;
Its a threesome, guaranteed. Good luck

TheGoonior · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from jinxu:

Long story short:

I met a nice girl but she lives in Los Angeles. I live somewhere in the midwest.

By "met", do you mean you met her on the Internet (dating site, Craigslist, etc) or met at some event, etc and have physically interacted?

pikachu9 · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from riddler:

She is a dancer and a model and shares the same morals as you? I guess that means you have the morals of an alley cat. This chick will be doing porn in no time, mark my words.

Usually it starts with nude modeling, then girl on girl lesbian porn. When those options are exhausted, then hard core sex porn. The "gang bang" porn would mark the end or near end of the porno career, but opens the door to "private date" services advertised online now banned on craigslist.

Quote from budcampbell:

Risk/Reward is heavily skewed in her favor. US divorce statistics prove it.

Or, she could meet a "nice guy," then clean him out in the divorce. That's a good plan B for her. Chicks will divorce guys simply for "being boring."

lwlee · Jun 30, 2013

Damn, you seem to know quite a bit about the lifecycle arc of a porn girl. You must give it a lot of thought.

Quote from pikachu9:

Usually it starts with nude modeling, then girl on girl lesbian porn. When those options are exhausted, then hard core sex porn. The "gang bang" porn would mark the end or near end of the porno career, but opens the door to "private date" services advertised online now banned on craigslist.

Or, she could meet a "nice guy," then clean him out in the divorce. That's a good plan B for her. Chicks will divorce guys simply for "being boring."

pikachu9 · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from lwlee:

Damn, you seem to know quite a bit about the lifecycle arc of a porn girl. You must give it a lot of thought.

Hahaha ... no.
If you just do a little reading online and think about it a little bit, it all makes sense. They say in porn the women start off in the industry at the top as the newest fresh faced vixen and it all goes downhill from there, in particular as all the free porn sites have decimated paying gigs in that biz.

Laissez Faire · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from jinxu:

She's also very smart and very mature for her age. I'm not just saying that.

Ain't they all. : )

You seem to be more infatuted with this girl than is healthy (I've been there a million times myself).

Are you in a relationship with her?

Generally, you should have a life purpose and a life that is more important than any girl. Thus, moving just because of a girl is a poor idea, unless you're already in a relationship.

Anyway, if moving is fairly easy and you don't have to make major changes, it can be a good adventure, although it may possibly be a short one.

You never know.

Good luck!

clacy · Jun 30, 2013

You are too close to the situation to see it, but everyone on here knows that the odds of you staying in a long term relationship with a young, hot, model/dancer in LA have to be less than 5%.

Now that's not to say that you shouldn't move because it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world to move to LA and bang a hottie for a couple of months but there is almost a zero percent chance that you will be with her in two years.

pikachu9 · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from clacy:

move to LA and bang a hottie for a couple of months

I would even say the probability of banging her is low because he hasn't even met her in person yet. Like another person mentioned before, she probably has tons of guys trying to hook up with her. Is she so desperate in Los Angeles that she needs to meet someone from another state? Doubt it.

Rearden Metal · Jun 30, 2013

You're skipping a step! Before uprooting your entire life by moving to a VERY different city, just fly out there to visit her a few times first. See if the relationship has true potential or not, and then go from there.

Have you even met this girl in person yet?

"When you meet somebody for the first time, you're not meeting them,
you're meeting their representative!"

~Chris Rock

Laissez Faire · Jun 30, 2013

Quote from pikachu9:

I would even say the probability of banging her is low because he hasn't even met her in person yet.

In that case, it's insanity to even consider moving.