Is it Wise For a Trader to Move to Los Angeles for a Girl?

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Long story short:

I met a nice girl but she lives in Los Angeles. I live somewhere in the midwest. She's a dancer/model and as far as I can tell is sane or at least trying to stay sane. We are very similar. Same morals, same background, same interests, etc. She's pretty hot too. It's literally a 1 in a billion catch.

But the problem is she lives in Los Angeles. I'm unsure if I would even want to live there. Anyone on here that's from there?

What's the pro and cons if you're a trader?

The reason I ask is it worth it to move for someone if they are special enough. There's an old advice I've been told:

"Stay away from girls that are from the big major metropolitan cities. Most are hot. Yeah. But most are also the craziest girls you would ever meet."

So the question is are the girl inherently crazy or is it the city that makes them crazy?
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hahahahaha
Is that you who few months ago were posting about your issues with a girl you wanted to marry?

Looks like some pimp also read the thread and passed your details around!

My advice : why not meet her brothers/sisters and cousins first ?
They might have some VERY interesting facts for you.
Not all "escorts" - including in Hollywood - advertise they are hookers. I wonder why.lol.

Better find out early on if you are taking the "poor house" fast lane.
Now should this be the poor house fast lane, then you can decide with all the facts , and enjoy it while knowing what your final costs are going to be. :cool:
 
Dude, this is a high risk, maybe high reward opportunity. Reason I'm doubtful is cuz she's young and living the hollywood lifestyle. She's prob surrounded by hot, young guys. If she's high maintenance and you are regular looking, you might be swimming against a fast current. But I understand, it might be fun just getting some, who knows if she happens to be the one, even better.

If the temptation is too strong, just consider it a 6mos or even a year vacation where you move out there and see how it goes. West coast has its advantages, if you trade equities, you have to get up earlier but you have more of the day to spend with her. This might be a big selling point.

Another thing is LA is poker central. Man I would do it just cuz of the early trading and poker but if I'm getting some as well. Damn, like I'm in a dream. :D
 
Quote from marketsurfer:

Why not? If it doesn't work out, move back home.

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will he have any money left then to afford the travel fare
if she did hid some "details" ? It will be her real job to take as
much as she can ( cars, properties, ....)
for the end benefits of her pimp, or "daddy".
 
Quote from smallStops:

will he have any money left then to afford the travel fare
if she did hid some "details" ? It will be her real job to take as
much as she can ( cars, properties, ....)
for the end benefits of her pimp, or "daddy".
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True, but no risk, no reward. Only he knows for sure if she is the one, if she is, GO FOR IT.
 
Quote from marketsurfer:

True, but no risk, no reward. Only he knows for sure if she is the one, if she is, GO FOR IT.
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The most important relationship for an adult life is the intimate one.
I'll say : check out first. Nothing to lose to meet her cousin or sister or brother first. It is not a race to the altar: take your time, get to know her well, if she is the one it will happen. Mistakes on this department can destroy a man.
 
i been thru' a similar relationship recently also with a 22 yr old. it actually depends on what you want out of the relationship and a whole range of other factors, not least, how old are you, don't take early impressions as face value, especially when comes to women, since you mentioned hot, chances r it means you may not be thinking straight since the "in love" phase last less than a year, however, being a trader, sure, nothing to lose, except perhaps your bank balance be a lot lighter when you leave, else, if it works out, nice!
 
Quote from marketsurfer:

True, but no risk, no reward. Only he knows for sure if she is the one, if she is, GO FOR IT.
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Risk/Reward is heavily skewed in her favor. US divorce statistics prove it.
 
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