JB3...Wow, you have nailed exactly what I went through from August July 08 to Nov. 08, now I'm getting back on track....wonder where I'm heading to next.
Quote from JB3:
It's easy when you are winning, no pressure, no big deal.
It gets infinitely harder when you don't have a job, and the market is the only way you can make money. Having a small stake won't help any.
Then every once in awhile, you will be tested, you will know that one mf'ing trade that is just dead set on killing you. From the moment you hit that entry button, it starts to run against you. If you fight it, and hold on praying it will come back, then that when it has you by the balls, and you end up losing big on that 1 trade whether it just nosedives away from you or you compound the problem by averaging down. Then the fear will take over, and you will start second guessing everything, and looking for the holy grail. As part of your new system development, you will filter out all the bad trades, but also the good trades. You will be a discipline freak because you know the consequences of not following rules.
And this is where people are stuck in perpetually until they find an edge. And this is why it takes so long because edges are not easily identified, especially by a newbie. And most of the time, every system snake oil salesman is luring you to some unprofitable system, and everyone has their own opinion of what the right way to trade is. You have to wade through all that garbage. Some take a few months, while others take years, or never. In trading, the amount of time you put in does not equal success, it does involve work, but also a lot of luck, intelligence, and discipline. So maybe momentum trading is your thing, you may be the lucky few that is successful from the start. Just know that at one stage or another, you will go through what I just wrote.
And after all that if you make it there, then you have a chance.