This started as a hobby, and even though I can do full time, it remains a hobby, found this mindset keeps some of the stress off. I have forced myself to always have something other to depend on as far as making a living funds. So idea of doing this for a living, unless you have few million in bank to keep stress off, way too many don't and fail.
Until last 3-4 years, I Scalped and had to keep losing down under 10% and long term trading was incredible under 15% profitable trades doing Commodities and being hedged every time changes bottom line greatly for me, so where I had in some instruments be 3% winning trades in futures for the year, were at the time I had over 100% return for the year. Year where energies topped at all times highs. Stocks trade differently than Commodities, they make different kinds of same chart patterns, but because of so many more stock instruments, I have found S/R not adhered as much like Commodities. Until recently, 3-4 years, only now been working on trending methods more so I can be ready for down turn in stock markets.
Although all systems but one is now automated, I still put in 60 hours plus a week on back testing which is my passion, I enjoy building systems much more than sitting there trading them. I have strengths of chart reading from 20 plus years of drawing them by hand.
I never knew when I started how much work I put into learning, I remember years went by of being in my cave doing 100 hour weeks. I love the game, I try to trade as perfect as I can, the outcome is just a percentage to me.
What I have found through others now, were my failures in the my beginning, trend is an illusion but required and way too many try to keep changing daily or by the trade, this changing is very bad as you not allowing your brain to get use to making comparisons, where price is in relationship to recent and recently past. Discipline or lack of is often times based on losing money and lack of knowledge, too often people wont take the trade that doesn't feel good so the brain gives you pain on these trades cause your brain now loves to lose and it is keen on making you see them as brain is happiest when you lose. 95% of my trades are the non feel good trades.
What most newbies don't realize, fees for day trading is the worst, you have to make up to and over 100% a year just to pay for fees.
You don't mention how you trade, or what you see as trend, so it is impossible for anyone to steer you in any direction.