Regarding "My buddy probably helps this guy earn through commissions."
He is not rich, to buy grocery with friend's commission.
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Regarding "I lost over $250k of my own funds"
Most traders lose (roughly more than 90%) eventually, for the last 400 years of capitalism and in most country.
I am sure the market is zero-sum, BEFORE expense (comm+tax).
I guess the 250K went to other traders and comm and tax, / possibly 100K to unknown traders and 50K to comm and 100K to IRS.
He is not rich, to buy grocery with friend's commission.
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Regarding "I lost over $250k of my own funds"
Most traders lose (roughly more than 90%) eventually, for the last 400 years of capitalism and in most country.
I am sure the market is zero-sum, BEFORE expense (comm+tax).
I guess the 250K went to other traders and comm and tax, / possibly 100K to unknown traders and 50K to comm and 100K to IRS.