Employers certainly don't like that, they want the employer's body and soul 24 hours out of 24.
But legally they only own 8 hours of my time and I'm working 12 hours days anyways be it a second job, learning new stuff (programming is hard, gotta keep up) or my own side projects that haven't made a dime so far in 20+ years.
Plus with the work from home new world, I shave off just about 4 hours hours from my daily schedule. Otherwise I'd commute some 1.5 hours each way, so 3 hours wasted plus 1 hour obligatory lunch, that's 4 hours.
After initially enjoying my new unexpected free time, then trying to make a breakthrough in trading using it and predictably failing, eventually I did the rational thing and got a second, part time (half time) job. Was upfront with the employer that I already have a full time job and won't leave it, so my options were severely reduced compared to just lying and providing fake identification so they can't know I have a full time job.
Anyhow made good money as a contractor while it lasted and afterwards made a pause as it's a bit exhausting. Unfortunately it seems the market from a year ago is gone and employers want 100% full time when they don't demand straight return to the office.
For now I'll still try for a while to negotiate in good faith but seems that doesn't lead anywhere which leaves me with no option but to go underground.
Why is is acceptable to get a second job as a taxi driver, fast food wrapper or what else but when it comes to software development, employers don't seem to grok that their ownership of me ends after 8 hours?
But legally they only own 8 hours of my time and I'm working 12 hours days anyways be it a second job, learning new stuff (programming is hard, gotta keep up) or my own side projects that haven't made a dime so far in 20+ years.
Plus with the work from home new world, I shave off just about 4 hours hours from my daily schedule. Otherwise I'd commute some 1.5 hours each way, so 3 hours wasted plus 1 hour obligatory lunch, that's 4 hours.
After initially enjoying my new unexpected free time, then trying to make a breakthrough in trading using it and predictably failing, eventually I did the rational thing and got a second, part time (half time) job. Was upfront with the employer that I already have a full time job and won't leave it, so my options were severely reduced compared to just lying and providing fake identification so they can't know I have a full time job.
Anyhow made good money as a contractor while it lasted and afterwards made a pause as it's a bit exhausting. Unfortunately it seems the market from a year ago is gone and employers want 100% full time when they don't demand straight return to the office.
For now I'll still try for a while to negotiate in good faith but seems that doesn't lead anywhere which leaves me with no option but to go underground.
Why is is acceptable to get a second job as a taxi driver, fast food wrapper or what else but when it comes to software development, employers don't seem to grok that their ownership of me ends after 8 hours?

