Is being profitable the most important?

Originally posted by BIG_TUNA


>Is being profitable the most important?


No, what else could possibly be more important than consistent profits?? What a stupid question.:(

I envy your simplicity BIG_TUNA. I hope to live a simply life like yours.
 
Originally posted by inandlong
Oh man does this one bring back memories.

I'm 46 now, so half of my life ago all that mattered to me was money. Money, money, money. Had to have it...lots of it. Even before that, when I graduated from high school I wanted to be a doctor because they made a lot of money. Well I discarded that idea because I didn't think...even at 18... that a person should be in medicine for the money.

I avoided college. 'Who needs it? Let's go, I'm ready to be rich now!' Sales jobs, sales jobs, sales jobs. Hated sales. 'If the shoe fits, put it on...I'm not going to shoehorn you in to this thing.'

Money, money, money, gotta have it, and lots of it. Stockbroker! Hey this is cool. What...cold calls - they don't come to you? Maaaan! Ok ok, I'll make the cold calls, but I'm also going to pick the brains of the guys in NY and Chicago and learn what I can about trading. Money, money, money.

But there was always this little voice in my head, or my heart - saying, "when you make a lot of money, if you're not happy, what then?" Hmmm. Well, I guess we'll see when I get there. Money, money, money.

Started to make some money. And a guy in Chicago gave me an idea I used to trade the spoos. Did well. Left the company, bought a seat at the Merc, and traded in the spoo pit. I had arrived. Money was rolling in. But I wasn't happy.

That voice had persisted - "Now what? You're making the money, but it's not making you happy. Now what?"

My world crashed. I was in a bad marriage, leading a bad lifestyle, making bad decisions. Except for the money, I had nothing. 'Gotta fix it.'

Left the marriage, the lifestyle, the trading floor, the money. Went to college to tread water for awhile. Ended up on the pre-med track. 'You know, taking care of sick people seems cool.'

Huh? Who said that? I had always known that I was happiest serving others. Giving, not taking. Yet I had pursued a life of taking. No wonder happiness and fulfilment had escaped me.

Medicine...family practice...helping people. 'The healing starts when they walk through the door.' My office motto. Alas, insurance, HMO's, PPO's, EIEIO's....took the fun of medicine away.

I had received Salvation from the Lord when I was 16, but I never followed Christ. I led my own life. During college, and medicine, I had returned to Christ, and Christian living. Trying to anyway. Trying to serve the Church when called. Serving others. Trying.

Trading has always been my first love. So I'm back. But I am not a money whore.... please excuse the intense language. I trade to provide for my family. I trade to provide for my church. I trade for the freedom it provides me to serve others.

Money is not the end. It is 'a' means to an end, as is the Lord, family, service. Having money means nothing if it is not used in the service of others.
In,

The journey of the soul is the greatest gift allowed us on this travels.

Money is a concoction of humanity for the sake of a better system. I feel we push forward for our sons and daughters to the time when food, water, shelter, medicine, education are all abundant and require no [money] effort.

When that point arrives when the "resources" of sustaining life are "free," either humans will destroy themselves, or they reach the next level of evolution and become something more than mere survival machines.

I think that you may have come to that place, and now the real journey begins.

Best,

nitro
 
Originally posted by Lobster:
"Every business owner has whatever degree of freedom he desires. To me, that's the most important difference between that and working for someone who has half your brains but thinks he is better because he can exploit you. And he is, as long as you let him."



Lobster has an interesting way of portraying a business owner. Every business owner has whatever degree of freedom he desires. Half your brains…..thinks he is better because he can exploit you…..And he is……

Having been in business as an owner most of my adult life, I can say from many years of experience that exploitation is a two-way street between employers and employees.

Employers have full financial responsibility that most employees are not willing to assume. I have offered many key employees part ownership, but as soon as they realize that their financial responsibility increases, they avoid ownership, opting for security of the paycheck instead.

Employees can leave any time they choose, even without notice. Employees cannot be held legally accountable for negligent work or performance. You still have to pay them, even when the screw up and cost you money. They want more pay, more benefits, and more time off, etc. etc. etc. Many will cheat on their time card/sheet, use company assets for their personal use, use company time for personal benefit and not think anything about it.

As far as having whatever degree of freedom I desire, I wish that were true. I have always been a slave to my business(s) because of the financial responsibility and being most responsible for its success and failure if I didn’t do a good job in managing it. Sure, when things are running well, I can take a little time off, but, when it needs more attention, I have to put in more time as well, often working 7 days a week and 12 to 14 hours a day if necessary. Not only does my income not necessarily go up, it sometimes goes down, and if running at a negative rate of cash flow, I may have to add funds from my personal account.

No wonder there are many more employees than employers.

As a full time trader with a separate business consisting of 6 retail stores, I find that trading requires almost my full attention from about 5:00 A.M. until after 1:00 P.M., whereas my retail business can pretty much hum along as long as I don’t neglect it too much.

I don’t think I would feel emancipated if I were to sell off the retail business and only trade as I do. I would still be devoted to pretty much a full time occupation. I just wouldn’t have to put up with employees. :D
 
Originally posted by inandlong
....I trade to provide for my family. I trade to provide for my church. I trade for the freedom it provides me to serve others.

Money is not the end. It is 'a' means to an end, as is the Lord, family, service. Having money means nothing if it is not used in the service of others.

I agree 100% - Only a life lived for others is worth living (Einstein)

Any occupation that we choose is about more than simply the money. Sure, we have to make a living to put bread on the table for ourselves, and it's OK to want to use our hard-earned cash to enjoy life. But true happiness - joy - is found when we use our God-given free will to provide for others - family, Church and those less fortunate than us who need help. Self-gratification is temporary and short lived. A generous spirit, and actually doing His will is what brings me joy.....rather than spending money on stuff that benefits only myself. Been there, done that......and it doesn't interest me anymore.
 
Abe Lincoln once said, "Never do for someone that they should and can do for themselves."

I have made decisions in accordance with that rule as well as against it and have found that in the vast majority of cases, the decisions that I made against it turned out to be the wrong decisions.

I prefer and try to help people to help themselves, to help them find solutions they can implement. They are almost always stronger for it and more appreciative.

This concept seems to define the major difference between the Democrats and Republicans.

The Democrats usually want to do everything for people, whereas the Republicans usually prefer to show people how to do it themselves.

In other words, the Democrats will give the people fish, but the Republicans will show the people how to catch fish. The difference being feeding the people for a day versus allowing them to feed themselves for life, which allows the people to be self sufficient, which the Democrats do not want. :)
 
Originally posted by inandlong

But there is nothing like the feeling of bringing a fresh baked turkey with all the trimmings to a family that wouldn't have eaten quite as well on Thanksgiving Day. Or seeing the smiling faces when the family you have adopted for Christmas comes in to your home to share Christmas day. Or the beautiful pictures of the children you support in third world countries.

No, I don't know what it is like to go to Las Vegas with 50K to blow. I think about how many Bibles that could send to China and shake my head. Not so much at blowing that much money...but moreso that that much money would be just a drop in the bucket towards the needs of so many people.

But it would be one drop more than they had before.

:)

Spot on. Last Christmas, my wife, 8-year old daughter and I took a bunch of presents to a mother and 12-year old daughter who would have had no presents that year but for the spirit of generosity. Getting involved in Church activities has changed the way I look at life. Giving to those who are struggling......now that's the joy I'm talking about. That's what life is supposed to be about.

50K at Vegas..........I'm shakin' my head too. Honestly man, the feeling you get doing that kind of thing could never compare to what a generous spirit could give you.
 
TSaimoto, are you serious?

do you really need to come to a message board to figure out that answer??

or to realise that the answer will vary according to each individual's values??

obviously actually making money is of vast importance when it comes to trading, otherwise why engage in it. but if you are profitable, it's unlikely that you are doing it SOLELY for the money..

and inandlong, thanks for sharing your story with us there. the topic obviously touched something close to your heart...
your response is quite similar to many others from people living in western countries... "money isn't everything" blah blah

it might not be "everything", but it's pretty damn close...
in my book --> 1. health 2. money

heard of Maslow's hierarchy of needs? tell me money doesn't do a bang up job - better than anything i can think of - of satisfying the first few levels of that triangle...
 
Originally posted by dottom

I am constantly made to feel guilty about my success in life from politicians, church, and TV infomercials. do my part, but without my secular pleasures I would not be motivated to succeed as much, and hence would be less capability to donate as much.

You're confusing "politicians, church and TV infomercials" with the whisper of God.
 
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