Quote from bdixon619:
Have you yourself been able to trade something other than money to your mentor for the experience? If your mentor expects money in return for experience then what do you, the student, have to offer the mentor besides? Do you have some skillset the mentor can profitably learn?
I'm interested to know, because like has been discussed here, the mentor is in it for the gratification of having passed on some knowledge. If you are being paid for it you are acting as a 'trading coach'.
Bruce
You bring up a very interesting point about the mentoring process.
Intent. Just what is the real intent of the one who is mentoring. Do they really care about the person they are mentoring, or are they only in it for the money.
Let's look at a definition of intent:
men·tor ( P ) Pronunciation Key (mntôr, -tr)
n.
A wise and trusted counselor or teacher.
Mentor Greek Mythology. Odysseus's trusted counselor, in whose guise Athena became the guardian and teacher of Telemachus.
A key component of this relationship is trust. Trust that the information being given is valuable, trust that the relationship is based in mutual benefit for both parties, etc.
There are certain occupations that can take advantage of this trust.
These "service" occupations typically are in the areas that the success of the relationship between helper and the helped is difficult to define, and pray upon those who are desperate for help.
An example would be the abuse seen in the Chiropractic field.
There are some unscrupulous Chiropractors who schedule session after session for "adjustments" which are in reality nothing other than a paycheck for the adjuster.
The same has been seen in the mental health field, where the psychologist becomes financially dependent, if not emotionally dependent on their clients.
I personally think psychology has its limits in nature in some areas, because the bottom line is a financial arrangement. Unlike a friend who will listen to someone's bullshit because they actually care, a patient will never know if the shrink cares or is just in it for the money. If the client is expecting "love" from the therapist, this is akin to someone expecting "love" from a hooker.
Subconsciously, this is know by the patient, and as such the patients are never really able to trust sufficiently to build a relationship necessary for mental healing.
This why the success rate for those therapists dealing with addiction and substance abuse have less success on average than 12 step programs, that employ the concept of sponsorship based mentoring (giving back without financial compensation, in order to keep the message real for them and to genuinely help their fellow man).
When someone is offering to mentor for pay, and yet claim they do it because they "love" doing it, as long as they are charging for their services, doubt of their true intention remains, and as such, the mentored may not trust enough to really surrender to the wisdom of one who has already walked the path of successful trading.
In the old days, the apprentice would surrender to the master and go to work for them and work for living expenses in trade for a career.
That was a proven system, what Brandon is selling is not a proven system, at least as far as I have seen statistical evidence in support of his claims.