Quote from olias:
Not 'everyone' does that. But this a good litmus test for how evolved a person is. The type of people who jump right in and make fun of the guy or put him down obviously have their own self-esteem issues. They need to put others down in order to feel better about themselves.
An evolved person realizes that they don't know his circumstances or what his thought process was and has no desire to cast judgement on the guy.
You see it time and time again on this website.
Psychologists refer to it as displacement.
I must admit I'm guilty of it too. This includes the recurring vision of caps on backwards, empty Mountain Dew cans everywhere, a mouse house account, shooting anything that moves, exciting and exiting over chump change (to gratify the ego) OR............blaming someone else (protecting the ego) when "it" moves in the other direction. When they finally blow account their account, POOF they disappear. Only to be replaced by more.
As for the topic at hand, the guy had the gonads to attempt it not once but twice. He died pursuing a goal the majority of us will never attempt. That includes me. To paraphrase John Cougar, that's living life close to the bone. I would imagine he left his wife (and family) a decent estate. She can re-marry. He can't.