Perhaps a poor word choice on my part, I was trying to point out that you spent little time engaging in conversations about anything but your project or helping out folks with questions or even getting into innane pointless conversations....in short you didn't do what it takes to be considered part of the community but appear to expect you be treated like a member of the community. Again I'm not judging you, as I pointed out I'm an EE and for some of us that's learned behavior. I'm just letting you know how you're coming across to the neurotypical community which I think might be a bit of a surprise to you and I hope learning that will help you going forward.