You are trying to create a divergence of opinion where none exists.
The US and Sweden locked down old folks homes after the Covid crisis began.
We all agree locking down old folks home is part of a proper plan.
I have not been able to see my mother in months.
Its going to suck because my whole family typically gets together with her this time of year for her birthday / family reunion.
Its not happening. We can't visit her.
Its sucks... but its wise... I agree with it.
Well let me say I hope the best for you family and mother. It is difficult for families to be separated at this time; it is especially difficult for the family members in the nursing homes.
We have families locally dealing with the same situation. They try to talk regularly on the phone. They are trying to use zoom, facetime, etc. with help from staff in the homes who know how to use these applications.
Hopefully things improve sooner rather than later.