Hey man,
(The title is bit over the top)
man the dude asking that question was so rude I was cracking up lol...what an ass.
Nothing but respect for Buffet...great example of success via following your passion. Not going to take his advice though haha. I also watched the video you posted of Morgan Housel which led me to watch several others and he is exactly right as well...the vast majority of people would do best parking their money in index funds like Vanguard...adding on each dip...and focus on other work. I admit if I had done that instead of pursue trading, my accounts would be way ahead instead of way behind currently.
I think the difference is I actually want to be a trader...I love it. I have always loved buying and selling...I have traded physical goods my entire life starting as a teenager getting my dealers license to flip vehicles and since have done so with all sorts of goods, motorized or not and always successful doing so. I always wanted to trade in the market but was intimidated and scared because I really didn't know anything about it or anyone who traded...I regret not getting involved much sooner to be honest.
What i have found out so far comparing my lack of success in the market to my experience as a trader of physical items is this: #1) I was basically just taking advantage of
arbitrage opportunities with goods...get familiar with a product, notice a mispricing, purchase then turn around and sell almost immediately for what it was actually worth at a profit. Some things required some elbow grease I suppose but I avoided major projects as it eats up too much time.
#2) I am a naturally good salesman...also professionally trained by Halliburton (to sell drilling fluid jobs to operators)...i am friendly and respectful in person which makes a difference...also my listings always had nice pictures and worded very clearly and neatly...decent marketing skills.
I say that because virtually everything that gave me an edge in physical goods is completely eliminated in trading shares/options/etc...Arbitrage opportunities are all but disappeared and more than likely only available to big players trading global markets...im not that guy. The market doesn't give a sh!t how friendly or personable i am either...or how well i take pictures or write a listing etc...
So at this point i have invested a ton of time and money working towards figuring this out...and I would be a liar if i didn't say i have thought about quitting 100 times. Each time I come to the conclusion that if i quit on something i want so badly i will regret for the rest of my life.
Have you ever watched the Art Williams "Do It" speech? its incredible...he also has a saying that goes like this: "all you can do is all you can do...and all you can do is enough". And the problem with most people is they "think" they are giving something their all but in reality they aren't really 100% devoted...much of they time they more or less mess around and when it doesn't work out they quit and move on. This is me to a degree. I have put in a lot of work but im obviously not anywhere near where i should be and there is still plenty left to be done.
I have pinpointed some serious weakness I have and working on them every day.