Yeeeeeep,
I have more money than most of my friends and I
have the crappiest car. lol.
I gave up the keeping up with the joneses game a
long time ago. It doesn't make me happy.
But I still want my porsche! Simply because I love
that car, and not for status. I could buy it tommorrow
for cash, but that would be soooo stupid financially
so I don't. It is not the right time.
The research on money and happiness also shows
that money does not buy happiness because of
the materialistic things you can buy, but because it
gives you control.
The reasons I want more money are:
Freedom to do what I want, when I want, and the biggie is
LACK OF WORRIES!
I dont have to worry about paying my bills.
I don't have to worry about good healthcare.
I don't have to worry about affording good meals.
I don't have to worry about random hits such as how am
I gonna pay for that water pump that just broke on my car?
I don't have to worry about losing my job because I have
enough money to look for my next one for 10 years. LOL.
Money buys me peace of mind and time.
It is a stress reducer.
Time can also be used to excercise and stay healthy.
Lack of time is the #1 thing that keeps me from excercising.
It gives you sooo many advantages that if you can't find
a way to be happy with money, then your source of
unhappiness has nothing to do with the money in
the first place. You need to work on yourself in that case.
peace
axeman
Quote from marketsurfer:
axe,
that is very true, particularly if your happiness in tied to material possessions. what happens is when you get your big house and nice cars--everyone you know either is insanely jealous or have the same or better. then you have to get a bigger house, more stuff, etc --this goes on forever until you crash or decide it is not worth pursuing. happiness has to come from within.
enjoy !
surfer