Quote from danielc1:
I would like to tell a little secret, but I doubt that anyone would believe it...
having money of that magnitude does not come by accident, and if it does you will never be able to keep it in the first place...
It is be - do - have and not about have - do - be like most people think. If having the money is the first thing on your list and then what you are going to do whit it the second thing and finally what you are as last, then keep on dreaming.
If you on the other hand first choose to be and then do the things you need to do, you will have the things you desire and in this case the 5 million dollar.
Quote from TM_Direct:
That was well thought out and well said........Now if any other ET members know what the hell he just said, please feel free to translate
When danielc1 says,
"It is be - do - have"
What I think that he is saying is:
Be = I have to first develop a conscienceness for whatever I plan to achieve. ( I have to believe in order to achieve) My goals and plans to achieve them must be deeply ingrained in my mind.
Do = Then I must take the necessary steps to achieve my goals. Hard work, trial and error, study of successes and failures, fine tuning my method in order to achieve my goals through progressive study and action.
Have = the results from Be and Do
Now, when someone has the 5 million bux dropped in their lap, without having first gone through the experience of the "Be" and the "Do", then they are less likely going to be able to hold on to it or even more likely will part with it rather quickly.
Pertaining to trading: this happens with new traders coming into the market with some easy money, be it inheritance, gift, won the lottery or whatever.
They start trading with a squeaky clean trading account and lose big, fast, because of the lack of having the experience that comes from the "Be and the Do" (which often, can take more time than they had ever imagined)
Some do well at first, only to find out the hard truth later. Eventually the cold hard facts will hit, and then the trader realizes that there is no such thing as consistent easy money. They come to realize that it might just take more of an effort than reading a couple of books about *How to Daytrade Online*, etc. Then the trader will work towards the development of the "Be and the Do" or either will blow out or give up.
Simply put : *Easy Come - Easy Go*