Turok, it is a pain, which is why I'm trying to find an easier way, or, if there is no easier way, suggest that an easier way be found.
Mark, that's the way I'm doing it now, and I'm suggesting that an alternative be found since I prefer the 40-post view.
And, yes, one can simply quote the entire post that one wants to refer to, but then you've got these unwieldy threads that become more and more difficult to slog through.
Simplest solution from my viewpoint? Assign every post a number that is visible in the post, e.g., below the date, or below the poster's number of posts. One can then refer to a post as #whatever in the Whatever Thread. At the very least, it would make creating FAQs a whole lot easier.