Quote from emg:
To become a success trader, u must know WHY more than 90% of small traders lose!
The house is winning. If the house is winning, join them!
This is a key to success.
Quote from PO:
Or, btw, I used to live in NY and knew traders there, most of traders in Big houses trade totally different from independent traders, most of them just do bid/ask spreads or front run the clients, very few are successful price action traders.
I've spoken with a few such traders and you're right, they "cheat" using their various advantages. whether it's leverage, being on the pulse of the action, or playing the spreads. The ones I've spoken with don't understand technical analysis nor price action, they don't need to.
Quote from PO:
I don't even know why I did it, I was so disciplined for months...
May be it's because I thought that this time was different, I was so sure we were going to get a pull back and there was no way we will trade to 1330 without a pull back and many traders I respect agreed with me
You are respecting the wrong traders. If you were swinging a short expecting a pullback, you were ignoring the technical picture on the daily chart. Once price broke through the 4/19 high of 1309.50, the next train station stop was the 1319.25 lower high from 4/15. Once price broke through that level, the next stop on the track was the previous high zone around 1336.00.
None of this guaranteed, of course, but it's highly probable.
Quote from PO:
May be mistakes have to be learned on a visceral level, not intellectual.
I'm not sure how it was for other successful traders, but there will come a point when you are truly afraid. It's a dark, scary, lonely and depressing place and all you think is "I can't do this". When you have made bad mistakes again and again, always certain that "this time will be different", I liken it to an alcoholic or drug addict "hitting bottom".
At that point, you realize that you have to learn how to trade. You have to learn to do what all those traders who took the other side of your big losers did. You learn to read price action, trade all high probability setups, manage risk without worry, and allow winners to reach target. You learn to do the opposite of what has been losing you money. You learn to take the other side of your own inexperience and failure.
From that point, it can still take a long time to get it.
And no matter how much you understand intellectually, there is still no guarantee you will be able to translate the "it" that you finally got into reality.
But I promise you this:
If you have those "Aha!" moments and learn to translate them into the scary new reality of trading that way, the payoff is tremendous, the stress melts away completely, and trading becomes an ordinary day job where you know you have a river of opportunities and feel confident that you'll collect a decent paycheck each week.
ADD: By the way, where's RN these days???