Depends on the day, depends on the market, depends on the spread.
I have *generally* found that legging into or out-of a vertical will cost me $$ *or* cost me lots of time/attention. "Paying the vig!"
If I'm doing a broken-wing butterfly, I *generally* enter as a combo, getting either quicker fills, or better fills, or both. *Exiting* has been a 50|50 set of outcomes. But I *always* set up the individual verticals, if only to know where the best price is.
For ICs, I also set up the individual legs, but will work both the individual verticals and work the IC complex combo, usually favoring the put verticals + call verticals approach, for faster fills at better prices (or both). But I'd never work an IC without having the individual verticals right in front of me.
For the OP: Yeah. Sometimes seeing the fills on an IC sucks. But to summarize (possibly) what everyone else had said, IB is a direct market access entity -- don't blame them.