Agreed -- and very much so. But still, who's taken advantage of whom?
To continue in the analogy to which you responded ("When your actions force someone else to take the wheel, don't bitch cuz they didn't take you home."), IB has no right to drive you to the county line and abandon you. But they *do* have every right, AND even the responsibility to IB shareholders and IB regulators, to drive you to *their* house, and abandon you. ("Us!")
And yes, that may trigger yet more "pain" on our parts. But ultimately, that's our bad, not theirs.
I'm of the opinion that IB has the ability to not abandon the trader and stand by their regulators and shareholders. I don't see why the program can't recognize simple vertical spreads. Now if people are trading iron condors or things with more than 4 legs, I can see the program splitting up the trade because who knows how liquid that'll be, but simple spreads should be liquid enough to give better market prices than splitting up each leg and doing 2 market orders. I'm not saying IB should make every effort to get the trader the best price, but I don't believe what I've suggested would be unreasonable or take extraordinary effort.
I'm just of the belief that in situations of liquidation, IB has an extreme amount of apathy towards the trader. Trader should always be watching the margin line and keeping it healthy. We aren't there to gamble with the broker's money. Imo, IB could continue with their tight liquidation policy without butchering options trades.
-- yes. I just did one of those idiotic smiley-face things that I *hate*.... That's how bored I am today. Oi Gods......) And we haven't even gotten into thin markets (like away-from the money options) or super-wide (pre-FED or post-Trumpidiot) markets. Do they GTFO, and then we bitch about whether the price was right? Ohhhhhhh yuck.