Instead of using arbitrary stops, you should be using logical stops, i.e. stops that are adapted to the market volatility.
for exemple, if you are going long on some instrument, and the last low was 15 tics away from your entry, placing your stop at or below the last low (so minimum of 15 tics) is a logical stop. Yes 15 tics might seem big *and it can be lot bigger sometimes*, but you will only get stopped out only if the market reverses and changes direction, Else the market will wiggle and eventually head your way.
If you are scared and insist on using arbitrarly set small stops, you will get stopped out often of trades that eventually go your way, wich is extremely frustrating, more frustrating than getting stopped of a trade that is a legitimate loser (i.e. the market completely changes direction)