Hey guys.. I want to become an neurosurgeon. Which books should I read? OK, please forgive the sarcasm, but I just had to make the point.
I've spent years of my life and thousands of dollars on books and DVDs. I wish I could erase everything I learned in them and get my money back. Most aren't worth the paper they are written on. Which books are worth it will depend on you, your trading style and your goals.
What you want to do CAN be done, but will probably cost more time and money than you can imagine right now. But it will be worth it in the long run. Having very low living expenses increases your chance of success exponentially.
1)The most important thing is to learn about yourself. What type of trading will fit: your personality? your schedule? your risk tolerance? your risk capital? your goals? If there is conflict between any of these, it will adversely affect your wallet.
2) Lose your ego. Some of the replies in this thread indicate that this is a problem area for many. Do not assume that because you are successful outside of the markets that you will be a successful trader/investor. They have absolutely nothing to do with each other. In fact, the single greatest source of "fresh blood" in the markets is engineers, closely followed by doctors. Your whole life you have been taught that 90% is an A, 80% is a B, 70% is a C, etc.... and anything less than 50% is failure. Shoot for an A in the markets and you will get slaughtered. Shoot for 50% and you can get rich.
3) Know when to trade and when to wait. It's OK to miss the train, another will be along any minute.
4) You will NOT turn $5,000 into a Million, even if you do turn out to be a very good trader. So you will need another means to build your trading capital, which will need to be in the area of $100,000 at a minimum. This is the absolute #1 piece of advice I can give from my experience. Ignore this one & you have all but assured your failure.
5) Trade small. Most people severely underestimate this one. In fact, it is the number 1 cause of failure for new & even not-so-new traders. Personally, I only risk 1/2 of a percent per trade. I even feel this is a bit risky, but I am still in the growth phase of my trading plan. My target is 1/4% or even less. If you can not trade with extremely low risk, then you have not accepted item #4 above.
6) Trading is a business, not a hobby. (Unless you are satisfied with "hobby" income). Make a trading plan and a business plan just as if you were building a brick and mortar business. Keep excellent records. Skipping this step reveals a lack of discipline and diminishes your chance of success.
7) Becoming a professional trader will require major changes in other areas of your life as well. If you lack discipline or patience in any area of your life, it will show up in your trading. I literally am not the same person I was several years ago. Enough so that those close to me can attest to a radical transformation. It was all necessary to become a profitable trader.
8) Get help. Find a trading partner or mentor. This may be more difficult than it sounds. There's a lot of predators out there willing to "mentor" any aspiring trader.. for the right price. If you have a close friend or someone your senior who is on the same path as you (preferably ahead), cherish that relationship.
9) Have a life outside of trading. Trade to live, do not live to trade or you will burn out.
10) Are you a happy person in your life right now? If not, more money will not make you happy. In fact, quite the opposite. Money is like a magnifying glass, it will amplify whatever your life is right now, for the better or for the worse.
11) Ignore any of these points at your own risk. As one pit trader says, "If you continually break the rules, one day they will break you".
*Everything I have said here may be bullshit, gospel or a mixture of both. You will have to discover them for yourself before you REALLY believe any of it. Just don't give up before then and you may be successful. It took me 6 years. It may take you less or possibly more. Be prepared to make the investment & you will be rewarded.