anyone will tell you making money in sim does not mean you will make money in live.
your stops will never be taken out in sim.......nobody is gunning for your ass.
but i would say that if you do not make money in sim..... you do not have a chance of making money in live.
no trader has ever gone profitable without losing money in live.
all the big names have gone on record saying how long they lost money before getting profitable.
it is the small names that do not admit it.
and mock those who admit to losses
Trust me, i have made plenty of mistakes in my trading career.
After some small account failures i believed i was ready for the real deal, so i funded an account with $20K. 2 months later the account was at $32k and yet a few months later the account was close to $0 ...
The difference between me and you? I have learned something from it and became a better trader because of it. I still make mistakes every now and then, but not without recognizing them when i analyze myself and my strategy, when i am being critical for myself and my performance.
Not without recognizing them and do something about it. If i where like you and just kept making the same mistakes over and over again, i would still be where you are, where i was when i lost the $32k.
The problem with you is even if every single person in the world would tell you what you should be doing, what you are doing wrong, that you need to change something to be successful, ... You would still believe they are all wrong, you would still think you know best and things will turn around, and exactly that is your problem and the main reason why you will never succeed.
You have been blowing up again and again for 30 years and still don't see a problem there ... You keep making the same mistakes over and over again but expect a different outcome this time. That is like watching a movie you have seen 10 times before but expect this time the ending will be different, even when you know that's impossible.
A good mentor also should know about making money in the markets, what to do to prevent from going back to the mistakes you made in the past, what to do to protect your gains, how to scale your account once you start growing your balance, how to handle the difficulties that come mentally with increasing size, how to overcome a losing streak without going back to those old day mistakes, ...
You might know how difficult it is to become profitable, but you know nothing of the above since you have never been there.