I have lost over half of my net worth/life savings trading forex.

What!?! "Over-leveraging and bucket shop reasons" aren't enough?
Jeeesh!

As eloquent as your post is (I enjoyed reading it), it still is not clear what you find so bad about forex.
Over-leveraging and bucket shops are not a problem for anyone with a bit of common sense.

Waves and turbulence is the bread and butter of every trader. Im not in the market long enough to be affected by a black swan event and I couldnt care any less for anyone that is, thats their problem. Sure there are massive investments playing the month and year timeframe bleeding profits off other peoples retirment money, but so what? Idgaf what the supertrend is, what the market sentiment is, how unfair it all is, what the data means, who is manipulating things...etc.

All I need is the market to be doing something. As long as someone is making waves and it is moving then I can make money.
 
In about 2 months I have lost about $940. I am fully aware that some have lost much more than me. However, it is alot to me.

It has been well covered in other threads and there are a lot of nay-sayers, but take what you have left and put it in bitcoin. This is your opportunity of your lifetime. Tell your Dad to do it as well. In spite of all the non-understanding bubble-bubble people on this forum Bitcoin has not even started the vertical part of its long term chart. It is still in the flat-line portion.
 
In about 2 months I have lost about $940. I am fully aware that some have lost much more than me. However, it is alot to me. I work for min. wage.

Before I started trading live I was paper trading and did extremely well. Originally my plan was to trade spreads on Nadex but i was unable to produce a bank statement to open an account so i took my business to forex.com. Looking back that was probably a good thing because the spreads offer even more potential exposure than spot FX.

When I started trading live most of my trades went against me. At least 70 percent of my trades went in the red. I was confused because I was doing so well in paper trading. It is obvious to me now that the fact I was trading with real money put in an emotional factor that my paper trading had not prepared me for.

One time I holding a short position over the weekend in the USD/JPY. I was wrong and it gapped up at the Sunday open and I was down about $70. When I got home from work and I saw this I yelled the f word, which caused my dad to ask my mom what the problem is. A few days earlier I had told her I was losing money and she told him. Upon hearing this he came downstairs and told me to stop throwing my money away and that he's going to stop supporting me if I keep doing what I'm doing (I'm 18). At this point I was down about $300 which he did not know about. With tax season coming I have no idea how I'm going to explain to him why I'm writing off almost $1000 in capital losses.

One big thing that made me not really think about risk management is the lack of horror stories online. Everyone wants to talk about how they turned $5000 into $50,000 in one year trading the ES or whatever, but no one wants to talk about how they lost everything they have. The main reason I am posting this is to stop other people from going down the same path I did. Trading, especially leveraged trading, can ruin your life quickly.

The first year I traded, I lost my entire account.That was about $18,000, 1969-70. I saved up again, and in the next couple of years I lost about half of my account. It was 14 years (1984) before I had a profitable year. There was no Internet, no PCs, no pretty colored charts, no candlesticks. Commissions were about $150 per trade. Now, I think a person could become profitable in a year or two. BTW, I have not had a losing year since 1983.

Good luck.
 
The first year I traded, I lost my entire account.That was about $18,000, 1969-70. I saved up again, and in the next couple of years I lost about half of my account. It was 14 years (1984) before I had a profitable year. There was no Internet, no PCs, no pretty colored charts, no candlesticks. Commissions were about $150 per trade. Now, I think a person could become profitable in a year or two. BTW, I have not had a losing year since 1983.

Good luck.
Neat story thanks for sharing.
 
Very funny, m'boy. Very funny.


In about 2 months I have lost about $940. I am fully aware that some have lost much more than me. However, it is alot to me. I work for min. wage.

Before I started trading live I was paper trading and did extremely well. Originally my plan was to trade spreads on Nadex but i was unable to produce a bank statement to open an account so i took my business to forex.com. Looking back that was probably a good thing because the spreads offer even more potential exposure than spot FX.

When I started trading live most of my trades went against me. At least 70 percent of my trades went in the red. I was confused because I was doing so well in paper trading. It is obvious to me now that the fact I was trading with real money put in an emotional factor that my paper trading had not prepared me for.

One time I holding a short position over the weekend in the USD/JPY. I was wrong and it gapped up at the Sunday open and I was down about $70. When I got home from work and I saw this I yelled the f word, which caused my dad to ask my mom what the problem is. A few days earlier I had told her I was losing money and she told him. Upon hearing this he came downstairs and told me to stop throwing my money away and that he's going to stop supporting me if I keep doing what I'm doing (I'm 18). At this point I was down about $300 which he did not know about. With tax season coming I have no idea how I'm going to explain to him why I'm writing off almost $1000 in capital losses.

One big thing that made me not really think about risk management is the lack of horror stories online. Everyone wants to talk about how they turned $5000 into $50,000 in one year trading the ES or whatever, but no one wants to talk about how they lost everything they have. The main reason I am posting this is to stop other people from going down the same path I did. Trading, especially leveraged trading, can ruin your life quickly.
 
In my first month, I lost 10k daytrading futures and I sworn I would never have a bad month daytrading in my life. Seeing it now, I think the only way for me to fulfilling my oath is never ever daytrading in my life.
You can stay days and weeks being profitable, then one day you awake overconfident or stressed with something and lose all you have gained and more, then you become less confident and less stressed and the cicle begins again
After a time, you know you are not the kind of person that will face bankrupticy, but you also know that you're not the kind of person that will be rich. And you continue, because you're just too stuborn to try everything else.
 
STOP. it is affecting you negatively. Trade on a real time sim for a year and dont go live w real $ till you are consistently profitable, which may mean Never. Stay in school
 
Geez, not to mention...You are 18 YO? Enjoy some of those fun youthful years! Don't bury yourself in this trading crap for a while, just enjoy these times you have now to be free, because they won't come again! Go wild when ye be young, because when you get older it is harder to go wild. Get cranky and start trading after you have had some fun! The shitness of trading will still be there for you, as you have already experienced. Ow. :)

This seems like bad advice. This is the time where he can afford to fuck up.
 
This seems like bad advice. This is the time where he can afford to fuck up.

It is also a time where he can ingrain bad habits of screwing up that will follow him for the rest of his life. With age comes wisdom. So have the fun now, build up wisdom and maturity. This way the screw-ups become easier to overcome (and more affordable), when one has said wisdom to know how much they can afford to lose? How to not panic when one has screwed up like this one apparently is?

Different strokes for different folks of course.
 
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