Not really. A good part of my distant family (cousins and such) are losers that suck on the government tit with no intention to get a job. They try to borrow money from my dad all the time (and from me on occasion - that's good for a laugh) with sob stories about how they can't pay the bills. This is despite the fact that they could all go out and get a job - none are disabled or otherwise. They're just lazy.
My step brother sat at home and played video games until his unemployment ran out, then he went out and got a job delivering pizzas, only to fall off his bike on the way to work, go on disability, etc. Total bums.
I usually don't hang out with any of them, so if there is a family reunion, I either don't go, or hang around the part of the family who works for a living, etc.
Is that kinda how you saw it?