Quote from HowardCohodas:
All sincere help is gratefully accepted.
I am surprised, however, that rather than giving me the benefit of the doubt about who I was referring to regarding hijacking the thread, you took is personally. I'm also surprised that some of my attempts at humor (albeit without emoticons) were so harshly interpreted.
You still have not answered why those who presume what I endured with horror words should not quantify them. I think that would be instructive.
Howard,
Since your heavy losses you appear to be relying a great deal upon "the benefit of the doubt".
As for quantifying, why should others do so? They can speculate intelligently in general terms, but why waste time trying to calculate specifics with incomplete data, when you can simply state the figure? It is a nonsensical suggestion.
The problem you have Howard is that after your recent violent rages very few people will believe your statement of loss. You are clearly in a somewhat disturbed frame of mind and are failing to communicate effectively.
I am willing to help you to learn emotional control Howard, as it is something that you desperately need to develop. It distresses me to see you in this state.


