How To Spot A Con Man

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marketsurfer

Having moved to South Florida, I quickly discovered this area is crawling with schemers, dreamers and outright con men. I want to start this thread to share ways on how to spot someone who is out to con you.

My number one tell is that they insist on speaking with you or meeting with you PRIOR to sharing any details of their "deal or project".

They try to make you sign an NDA even if there is no reason for it. If they are so easy to go around, they don't have a relationship to begin with --

Another strong tell, which I learned from Rearden Metal on this site, and it has proven true is that they insist on calling you Buddy or Friend before they even know you.

Would like to see what others have used to smoke out these unsavory characters.

Thanks,

surf
 
Surf another big sign I've noticed over the course of my life is the redirection on a question you ask to something else. They do it in such a manner that a lot of people have a tough time realizing they just redirected.
 
Standard practices are.......

Become/pretend to be your friend
Maybe do you a small favour so you feel you owe them
Get you to invest a small amount of time / money into something, with the theory you won't want to be proven wrong and wasted either so you'll keep going.
Obvisouly if it's too good to be true it is.
Try to make it seem like it's a deal, just for you with a time limit, ie doing you a favour.

Most people will immediately when your gone with others, discuss you, set your phone to sound recording and accidentally leave it on the table, come back in 10mins and that's what is really up.
 
Interesting topic. The two tells I've noticed are: 1) they invoke references to religion and God, and 2) they emphasize how whatever they are selling will help your family and make you a better person.
 
Branzol said:
Surf another big sign I've noticed over the course of my life is the redirection on a question you ask to something else. They do it in such a manner that a lot of people have a tough time realizing they just redirected.
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Interesting-- thank you! Another thing I have noticed is that when questioned specifically they don't answer.
 
Trader13 said:
Interesting topic. The two tells I've noticed are: 1) they invoke references to religion and God, and 2) they emphasize how whatever they are selling will help your family and make you a better person.
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Yes!! and there is often a charity aspectd beyond religion-- but as unfortunate as it may be, ,as soon as i learn the guy is an outspoken born again or other fundamental religion, I get very suspicious.
 
Turveyd said:
Standard practices are.......

Become/pretend to be your friend
Maybe do you a small favour so you feel you owe them
Get you to invest a small amount of time / money into something, with the theory you won't want to be proven wrong and wasted either so you'll keep going.
Obvisouly if it's too good to be true it is.
Try to make it seem like it's a deal, just for you with a time limit, ie doing you a favour.

Most people will immediately when your gone with others, discuss you, set your phone to sound recording and accidentally leave it on the table, come back in 10mins and that's what is really up.
More...

Another thing i have noticed is they rarely talk exact numbers-- its always a range like we need around $20 million for this deal or that----Real people know exactly what they need-- this isn't 100% but i have seen it.
 
They drive fancy cars and/or wear expensive clothes to give you the illusion they are doing well.
They mention things they've recently purchased for their spouses and girlfriends to make you feel like you would be able to do the same for the people you care about if you just jumped on the proposed deal.
They act like they've already got their own money tied up in bigger deals which is why they are looking for your investment "in the small stuff".
 
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