How to learn to IGNORE the failure in trading.

not meaning to say, don't do your home work or don't practice until your comfortable. the only way to get your feet wet is by placing them in the water. Dealing with anxieties that affect our decision making process, one must hit them head on. you must put your metal to the test to see how well you do in a real environment. Its not fun, but that's how the conditioning process works. until your in, your not really in and the longer you stay in, the quicker you recover from your anxiety. Fear is not real!

Spielberg said,

"The more frightened I am, the more I have to run into what's scaring me to figure out what it is.”

Spielberg also said,

"The work that I'm proudest of is the work that I'm most afraid of."

"One who cannot come to a decision will suffer for it, as in I couldn't make up my mind, and now the offer has expired—he who hesitates is lost. Although the idea is undoubtedly older, the present wording is a misquotation or an adaptation from Joseph Addison's play Cato (1712): “The woman that deliberates is lost"
 
Making money, or losing money, is as a result of your actions, which means your entering and exiting your trades.

Why you enter, or exit, will depend on what you use, be it a manual or automatic decision making process.

For most it is manual.

To calculate the odds of price moving in your favor, there are but 3 things that you need to be aware of, for either decision making process.

Failure to be aware of these 3 things will invariably lead to losses.

The level (size) one decides to take it to, is a personal decision, so whatever anyone else does is totally irrelevant.

J_S

3 things ?
I have got two ...
What do you do ?
- Buy / Hold / Sell
When do you buy / sell ?
- Too early, Psychological moment, too late.

That's what is on your stamp.
Time + Action = Price.

If you've got clue about these two,
Chances are you'll sell higher than you bought.

What else ?
 
When you pick a top or bottom, the market will continue to trend against your trade. When you chase a trade, that is when the market will reverse against you.

So if you realize you chased a trade and it starts to go against you, try to get out with min loss, and learn to not do it again. We are human and will still make mistakes. There is a difference in getting in on a small bounce off of resistance and seeing that the market was already falling hard and jumping in not realizing we are near a possible bottom. I did that today on ES, trade went against me right away but as it came back down, I was able to kill the trade for a 1 tick loss. On CL then I saw that price wanted to go up but then came back down to a support level, where I was able to get in long for a 2nd mouse trade, meaning the 2nd mouse gets the cheese too. On CL once trade started to go my way a little, I moved up stop giving me now a better risk vs reward. By getting in at what you know is a correct setup point allows a better stop so you don't take a negative risk vs reward.

When looking back on the day, you need to decide if you traded bad, or if your setup was not working. If you see what you did wrong try to fix it for the next day. You just don't want to keep taking losses trying to make back a loss due to a bad trade especially if on a winning day, you don't keep taking winning trades. I would and should rather wait patiently for a good trade then take a loss on chasing a bad trade.
 
Making money, or losing money, is as a result of your actions, which means your entering and exiting your trades.

Why you enter, or exit, will depend on what you use, be it a manual or automatic decision making process.

For most it is manual.

To calculate the odds of price moving in your favor, there are but 3 things that you need to be aware of, for either decision making process.

Failure to be aware of these 3 things will invariably lead to losses.

The level (size) one decides to take it to, is a personal decision, so whatever anyone else does is totally irrelevant.

J_S

So you are saying position size, and risk management are irrelevant and that it is all about picking winners?!?!? ROFLMAO. NO ONE will EVER make 100% winning trades, so without risk management you will eventually blow your account on one or two bad trades. It's not a mater of IF but WHEN.
 
the demo is a false reality when dealing with the anxiety of a loss. This is why a person needs to place real trade's in order to determine what level his anxieties would be, when dealing with a loss. its a conditioning process that requires a person to experience the highs and lows of trading.
I think we have to accept financial losses as a good experience. This makes it possible to analyze the situation and find the right answer, it's like to carry out the monitoring of activities.
 
So you are saying position size, and risk management are irrelevant and that it is all about picking winners?!?!? ROFLMAO. NO ONE will EVER make 100% winning trades, so without risk management you will eventually blow your account on one or two bad trades. It's not a mater of IF but WHEN.

Show us all where I said that?

J_S
 
Show us all where I said that?

J_S

OK

This section you only talk about entries and exit decision making, no risk management.
Making money, or losing money, is as a result of your actions, which means your entering and exiting your trades.

Why you enter, or exit, will depend on what you use, be it a manual or automatic decision making process.

For most it is manual.

To calculate the odds of price moving in your favor, there are but 3 things that you need to be aware of, for either decision making process.

Failure to be aware of these 3 things will invariably lead to losses.

Then you say whatever else they do is irrelevant. So I read that as ^^^ "Proper Entry/Exit is what makes you profitable" VVV "Everything else is irrelevant". If that is not what you meant then you did not make that clear.
The level (size) one decides to take it to, is a personal decision, so whatever anyone else does is totally irrelevant.
 
OK

This section you only talk about entries and exit decision making, no risk management.


Then you say whatever else they do is irrelevant. So I read that as ^^^ "Proper Entry/Exit is what makes you profitable" VVV "Everything else is irrelevant". If that is not what you meant then you did not make that clear.

It is not that I did not make it clear, it is that you did not understand it!

J_S
 
I think we have to accept financial losses as a good experience. This makes it possible to analyze the situation and find the right answer, it's like to carry out the monitoring of activities.

Absolutely correct! We have to learn from our mistakes. investing is a process that evolves over time. The markets have a way of finding out your weakness and many times its your past that stands in the way of future gains.
 
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