As far as I'm concerned.....All relationships, and All people....are a f'n can of worms, a Pandora's box of weird, potentially, strange problems.
You see it all around you..,..from celebs to normal people....everyone eventually will hate everyone. Happily ever after, and happiness in general, does Not exists.
Happpiness is a temporary, fleeting, random emotion of illusion, dillusion. Amidst a sea...of confusion, anger, irritability, strangeness, depression, worry, etc etc[/QUOTE
I must be lucky. Been married over 20 years, she's my best friend and I love her more today than I've ever loved her. I don't just love her, I'm still IN love with her Everyone lusts but that's something that's easily controlled when you have that special love. Hope you find that some day.