Quote from TSGannGalt:
Whenever I read a discretionary guy who says "They have a friend who programs" or "Have a friend works in the industry" with this type of enquiry. It tells me that the dude is a not a profitable trader who's hopes that his problems with trading is a "psychological one" and thinks that un-emotional trading will make him profitable.
Seriously...
Get a life.
At the end of the day you still have not offered this guy any help. There is no way of knowing 100% for sure that this guys is a fool............but it takes a few secs to offer a couple lines of advice.
Look at metatrader software, they also have a helpful forum (http://forum.mql4.com/) where traders will answer your questions. They also have templates of strategies that u can download and install for free. Then there is a free book on the website that teaches u how to program and about the free software.
You have been already told about Ninjatrader which is very good. My advice is that you need to learn programming ( pref. C) no matter what, this will help u especially if somehow u SO LUCKY to end up managing $1bil!!