how the catholic church turns off young people.

Quote from stu:

Well yes, it may well be irrelevant to what you are saying, but it isn't irrelevant to what I am saying.

As far as I am aware, KKK cannot force or oblige anyone to attend a meeting to hear their hateful bigoted preaching. Apparently the catholic church thought in De Salle school they could mandate people. So the -choice- thing is not at all irrelevant.



They were asked. The OP says there was measured knowledgeable objection to the remarks of representatives from an archdiocese. The offensive speech seems to have been one way - in the shape of a bigotted opinion of a church, which was personal, and upset those directly affected by its hurtful contents.

The OP indicates the type of offensive preaching at the students in the school. You might expect to hear such stuff in a KKK meeting but people attend those by choice.

I don't recall anywhere saying the school should not be able to call mandatory meetings. I do recall implying they apparently use them to verbally in this case, to insult and abuse children and their classmates and that it should not be allowed in a school, especially by those who are supposed to be fulfilling a role as teachers.

When being taught evolution, you don't get to personally insult students by calling them sociologically unstable and comparing them with bestiality.
If any school did that, private, catholic or not, I would have thought and hope you'd expect them to object and refuse it if nothing was done to stop it.

Making students attend a one off meeting in order to personally assault them with offensive remarks in the name of religion, is not what's expected in class or anywhere at all, other than at KKK or an islamic school.

There is nothing in the OP about students shouting anyone down. It mentions polite and knowledgeable rebuke. Feeling angry is not the same thing.
Students were obviously upset by some vile sounding remarks made by the church and objected, as was their right so to do, even if there had not been any question/answer, which apparently there was.

The impression you give is that private school has an absolute right over any situation, even when it is insulting offending or harming those in its care. Just because it is private. Just because it is catholic. Just because some parents want it that way.

So now they were personally insulting students.. personally. The bottom line is the church has every right to call a mandatory meeting and state its positions, AT ITS OWN INSTITUTION, indifferent to the possibility that certain individuals will be insulted or feel bad. There was no abuse as you state, and you certainly were implying that this shouldn't be allowed. And you are right the KKK can't force anyone to join and listen to them, but if one does decide to join and doesn't want to attend their meetings because they disagree, then why did they join? i just can't make this point any more simple: the church is openly anti-gay, if you are a gay teen and attend their institution it is possible, if not likely, that this position will be made known to you. religion is part of their curriculum, and the anti gay position is part of their religion. Sorry that's the way it is.. if the student is unable to accept this position because they feel personally attacked, they should attend another school. If their parents force them to attend, then they need to take it up with their parents. You can't actually expect that the church, or any private organization, should not discuss or be forced to CHANGE its positions because they might offend someone, when it was founded by people who promote and embrace those very ideas. And if you do expect that, then you are being both unrealistic and intolerant.
 
Quote from CaptainObvious:

How to they turn off young people? Well, telling them to abstain from premarital sex while raping them probably sends a mixed message.:eek:

yea that is some sick, twisted shit that happened and probably continues to happen. I am only defending the church's right to preach their own ideas and faith AT their own institutions, as I would for any private organization.
 
Quote from PiggyBank:

yea that is some sick, twisted shit that happened and probably continues to happen. I am only defending the church's right to preach their own ideas and faith AT their own institutions, as I would for any private organization.
..but don't defend the right of students to respond themselves at the institution to some sick, twisted shit you defend a church's right to preach.
 
Quote from stu:

..but don't defend the right of students to respond themselves at the institution to some sick, twisted shit you defend a church's right to preach.

You must not be reading my posts bud.. I clearly stated that I had no problem with the students disagreeing in the appropriate manner. My problem is with guys like you implying or outright saying that they (the church) should not be able to hold a mandatory meeting because others feel that their beliefs are wrong and/or insulting. I defend the church's right to state their positions AT their own private institutions, whether i agree with them or not. You obviously do not, thankfully it isn't up to you.
 
Quote from PiggyBank:

You must not be reading my posts bud.. I clearly stated that I had no problem with the students disagreeing in the appropriate manner. My problem is with guys like you implying or outright saying that they (the church) should not be able to hold a mandatory meeting because others feel that their beliefs are wrong and/or insulting. I defend the church's right to state their positions AT their own private institutions, whether i agree with them or not. You obviously do not, thankfully it isn't up to you.

Right so, is it that you agreeing with my argument or trying not to concede to it by saying I'm stating or implying things I have and do not?

You agree with a catholic church school's right to personalize, verbally offensively abuse and demonize their pupils against other classmates, but you don’t condemn it , but rather your position is they should just be free do it.
 
Quote from stu:

Right so, is it that you agreeing with my argument or trying not to concede to it by saying I'm stating or implying things I have and do not?

You agree with a catholic church school's right to personalize, verbally offensively abuse and demonize their pupils against other classmates, but you don’t condemn it , but rather your position is they should just be free do it.

Would you consider this implying or stating?

"A mandatory assembly is not a meeting where people are taking part of their own free will. If the catholic church can do that, then so should PETA and the KKK, when they too can be resisted by school children obliged to attend." - stu

Clearly u don't think they should have been able to call that meeting. My position was/is/will remain that they are free to do so, and rightfully so.

Also, I never said that the students can't disagree. I defended the analogy because it doesn't make sense to join an organization that you are at odds with, it is ignorant to assume that they are going to change because of you, and it is intolerant to attempt and force change upon them; in this case, when it goes against their religious beliefs AT their private, religious school. Example, gay student attends catholic school - school calls a mandatory meeting at which the immoralities of homosexuality are discussed - gay student objects and claims he was personally attacked. School is then painted as intolerant, when in reality it is the gay student that is intolerant and out of line. Would u agree that the gay student is wrong in this example?
 
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