I lost about 5k over 5 years when I thought I could be a day trader.
I swing trade now. Sometimes hold for a day to a couple of weeks. I always take on a partial hedge using weeklys or front month options. The best decision I ever made. It reduces my profit for the insurance (sometimes)but if it sure make trading alot easier. Especially in this market where stocks are getting crushed on any hint of bad news.
I go long, I buy puts. If I am correct my put loses value but I make up for it in my long position, if I am wrong I let the puts ride and and get stopped on my long for a small loss. As I go to close my long I buy calls setting up a strangle. Then trade in and out. Sometimes they expire worthless, sometimes I make a little and lately sometimes I make alot. Sometimes I leg into them to reduce the loss and sometimes I leg in and get the free trade plus the spread (if it hits, god do I love those). Lately I have made money on both due to the volatilty over the course of the month. Normally my strangles are 1 strike away. Lately I have been trading Bidu and using 2 strikes OTM and raking in 200 to 400%(and thats just my insurance). It's been working great. Makes me sleep easier at night as well.
I don't use any system or programs. I don't trade 50 times a day for nickel. I use MACD, volume , S&R levels and 50,100 and 200MA. and my 6th sense. Thats it. ( I do keep an eye on the fundies as well) I basically study price action and get a feel for sentiment and one can see that sentiment in the price of calls and puts. One can see where the bias lays. I watch the markets from 7am to 8pm and absorb all the info I can and filter out what I feel is relevant and what is not. Its funny watching all these clowns on CNBC with their foolish hyphothesis.
For me, trading is not a job or a hobby. Its a passion. I sleep, shit, shower, shave and dream the markets. I hate weekends. I cant wait til monday comes.
IMO if trading is not a passion for you, if it does not completely absorb you then you have little to no chance at success.