Quote from failed_trad3r:
"Trading is not freedom. Money is freedom"
This is wrong on so many levels. I will explain. Without having done the intellectual work on yourself you are not free, you are subject to various mental restrictions, some of which you will not even be aware of. The truly successful traders have done this work on themselves to achieve heightened awareness and also an acceptance of self. Consistently successful trading requires an intimate awareness of what makes you tick.
Money in itself is not freedom. If you are not equal to wealth and yet acquire it, it will destroy you. As an example I give you those who have inherited great wealth and failed miserably. There are books written about the difficulties involved in this very issue. Exhibit B: lottery winners.
Money represents an ability to engage in trade. It is a tool, nothing more. Saying money makes you free is like saying education makes you wise or possessing a gun makes you strong.
If you are not as complete control of your life as possible then you are not free. It is impossible for an employee to be truly free, as they are the subject of an obligation.
I have occupied myself for longer than 8 hours per market day since I first started out on my journey. All of this has been through choice. I can also take tomorrow off if I wish. I can shut up shop for a month if I wish. In a few years if I decide I want to leave trading I can do this also. I have immensely enjoyed the intellectual challenge of figuring all of this out and I now have the freedom to choose when I trade, for how long, what markets, etc. If I wanted to trade 2 hours a week I could, and I'd still make a living. (I'd need to carefully choose which two hours, but it is possible).
Quote from failed_trad3r:
"I am saying that living frugal to add capital to trading is totally stupid idea. Most people who go into daytrading quit their job to daytrade. The examples in this thread are like that. People first quit their job, then live frugal so that they have more money to trade with, then trade for living or create strategies for several months and then trade. This is very very wrong on so many levels."
Nonsense. You cannot fully commit yourself to this profession when you are subject to an obligation and working for someone else. In order to transition sooner or later you are going to need to give it your full attention. When you do so, assuming you have no passive income sufficient to support yourself, you will start to eat into savings. The more frugal you are, the longer these savings will last. You should make them last as long as possible, as you never know how long it will take before you can do what you need to do. It took me several years. Had I lived more extravagantly I would have run out of funds much sooner, and may never had the opportunity to fund a decent sized account and be successful.
Quote from failed_trad3r:
"First of all why quit your job then live frugal to preserve capital. This makes no sense whatsoever. If you wanted to preserve capital then keep your job, live frugal is a much better way to preserve capital for a trading venture. Not only does that preserve capital. It ADDS capital, so you're no longer undercapitalized. If you have to live frugal then whats the point? You have to start a trading venture only if everythings in your favor, and living frugal should only be the last resort."
You need to quit the job at some stage. Every month you are still an employee is another month your are not developing what is required. You do not leave until you can afford to. However you can do so sooner if you are prepared to make sacrifices. If you are married to some notion that you cannot ever reduce your living expenses, then it will take you all the longer to put yourself in a position where you can leave your job. I do not think this is a very good attitude.
As for everything in your favour - that will never happen. You have to choose the point where you have put the odds in your favour as much as possible
and have a realistic chance of success. Working another two years because you don't want to reduce your expenditure by 20% is stupid.