Those probabilities are calculated from the Black-Scholes models that calculate greeks also, I think. That mean's they're an "approximation" for starters and secondly they assume brownian motion so a random possibility of the underlying moving higher or lower. For example the probability might read that with the underlying at $50 per share the $55 call has 60% probability of being ITM and the $45 put has 60% probability of being ITM (just making up number for the example). Using a normal-ish distribution this would be accurate, but stocks don't move in a completely random fashion, because people don't act in a completely random fashion. Thirdly, since the probabilities listed follow a normal or normal-ish distribution that means that there is a close-to-linear change in probability as you look at strikes further and further OTM. In reality in most cases if you have a stock at $50 the rate of change of probability from the $30 strike call to the $20 strike call (just making stuff up again, but think of a big move in the underlying like if the market crashes or the company gets acquired etc.) is not linear but might actually be the same or very nearly the same probability for the $30 and the $20 strike puts.
Find another way. LOL.
Find another way. LOL.