I am actually in my three years in the trading world
So you're a babe, that's ok, but you wont know what you don't know, that too is ok.
and if I only ‘listen’ to what I know I feel I could succeed. But the psychological part is messing with me and the more I try to solve it the more I get in trouble on the market. Not bad troubles as I have lowered my exposure to little capital. I also know that the psychological part is the problem of many traders and that I am not trading on the easiest level as I am doing scalping (5M) but it is what fit me. I tend do get impatient with longer positions.
Let me ask you a simple question. If you were a lone basketball player, who would you prefer to compete against, a 5 person team or a 50 person team?
I tend do get impatient with longer positions.
So we get to the crux of some of your problem.
Like if many persons would respond it would give an estimate that is still nice to have because for now the road doesn’t have any light and the walk is groping.
You will probably never ever achieve success, ever!
So your question, how many years to turn pro? Answer: A lifetime.
I could possibly count on one hand the number of successful short term traders on ET.
But long term traders, possibly scores of them.
Here's the reason which I don't recall ever heard mentioned on ET.
Traders, not all, but most 'pros' trade a system, a methodical, mechanical, repeatable systematic way of going about it.
Now there are millions of traders, trading hundreds or thousands (dunno) methods.
They are all variations usually of indicators or Price Action.
Moving averages, rsi's, gann, EW, Fibs, OBV, MACD's, volatility, breakouts, etc etc.
There's a type of bellcurve when it comes to timeframes.
The majority of traders congregate around the short term, the minority of traders trade the long term.
Now what happens in reality, the shorter the timeframe, the more competition in terms of methods and these clash with each other.
You may have heard it said for example Fibonacci method (or any well known method) becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. In other words, if a belief system is well entrenched, traders then trade in synch with each other.
Cutting a long story short, shorter the time frame, less synch, more clashing, more noise, more volatility, more unpredictability, more times that one system which has dominance only lasts a moment before another system takes control.
You a fighting a losing battle against many machines, like a noob playing Chess against an army of methodical robots which never tire, never get frustrated, never get ruffled and are programmed to win.