I don't think anyone says that it's so easy to separate the idea of making/losing money from the actual method or means to do well in the mkts, only that it's pretty darn essential.
We all associate the things we need or want in life with the money needed to pay for those things so it's only natural to look at trading that way as well. The problem is, we are emotional creatures and have a tendency to ruin our own good planning by succumbing to these emotions. If you have a solid method, you need to trust in that method and follow it to a tee. Of course, try and improve the method over time, but following it each day without worrying about your P&L should greatly improve your trading.
Of course, this is all dependent on having a method that you've tested and has shown to be solid (or at the very least enough to cover costs)
We all associate the things we need or want in life with the money needed to pay for those things so it's only natural to look at trading that way as well. The problem is, we are emotional creatures and have a tendency to ruin our own good planning by succumbing to these emotions. If you have a solid method, you need to trust in that method and follow it to a tee. Of course, try and improve the method over time, but following it each day without worrying about your P&L should greatly improve your trading.
Of course, this is all dependent on having a method that you've tested and has shown to be solid (or at the very least enough to cover costs)
Quote from learn&earn:
this is bad to admit but I'm with "inky" on this one. I still havent found out how to seperate my feelings from my P/L yet. When I have a bad drawdown day I feel awful for hours. If i have a great day I fell like opening a HF! lol. It's easier said than done for sure. I guess that's how people like John Arnold or Steve Cohen make six figures daily and are still mad cause they should have made more. Sign me up for that.