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You are so patronizing that you make Jerry Falwell look like Little Orphan Annie...
Quote from ShoeshineBoy:
Again, you're ignoring my points, but I'll keep trying. Here's another quote from the same site:
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Brother,
These facts and figures make for excellent conversation piece when dating. Perhaps you could ask the little lady to read over the articles herself just before you propose marriage. This will increase your odds. If she still doesn't respond right, you could turn up the patronizing rhetoric a notch or two and see if she gives in. Keep trying. Once she's won over, you can always find a Reverend F who will validate the whole ritual.
But the fact remains, sex is a false idol made to fix your attention on the body and the world with just enough of a payoff to keep you coming back for more. It's very similar to a narcotic. The world is designed to suck you in and keep you here. Never underestimate it's influence.
Heaven, on the other hand, is a perfect, indescribable ecstasy that never ceases.
Not all Buddhist monks are developing stones. A few can testify that they are, experientially, coming "all the time". All experiences, including sex, are mental states - even if the illusion is that they take place in the body.
Properly perceived, it's never about sacrificing, giving up, or going without. All spiritual endeavor is about fulfillment. It's about getting back what you gave up to obtain a world of substitutes and idols. Justin Timberlake may claim to be able to bring back sexy, but only spirit is truly sexy...truly satisfying.
Sex is nothing. However, if you are with a partner, I do not recommend turning to her after you make love and say, "That was nothing". But I also don't recommend you fool yourself and think that is is everything.
Brother, there is no condemnation here. And there is no hell beyond what is made by bodily fantasies.
Simply read the pop bible for yourself, and see that the Apostle K speaks the truth:
"Love can be a many splendored things,
Can't deny the joy it brings.
A dozen roses, diamond rings,
dreams for sale and fairy tales.
It'll make you hear a symphony
And you just want the world to see
But like a drug that makes you blind
It'll fool you everytime
The trouble with love is...
It can tear you up inside
Make your heart believe a lie
It's stronger than your pride
The trouble with love is...
It doesn't care how fast you fall
And you can't refuse the call
See, you got no say at all! "
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-CSZMt9Mos&feature=related
Brother, the truth is worldly "love" is designed to deceive you. It's an idol that substitutes for your reality as Christ, who is everything, and who is true love. And this is what you deny to obtain this world.
An idol is believed to have the power to complete what is already complete. In order to get hold of an idol, you must believe that Christ is not complete...so you must believe that
you are not complete. And when Christ believes something false, there is going to be some fallout. It puts you in a state of mind in which there is a feeling of danger with forces massed against your confidence and peace of mind. Idols are made to save you from the feelings these false beliefs generate. Idols are then given the power to supply your lacks, and add the value you do not have.
No one believes in idols who has not enslaved himself to littleness and loss. He then seeks beyond himself for strength to raise his head and stand apart from all the misery the world reflects. And this is the penalty for looking not within for certainty and quiet calm that liberates you from the world, and let's you stand apart in quiet and in peace.
Brother, I have not come to take from you the little that you have. My "patronizing" merely puts you in a position, if you heed the message, where you can claim your natural inheritance, which is far greater than any bodily feeling you can conjure up.
This is what Christianity is about. It's about returning to yourself as Christ...not running away from it as you have done since the beginning of time.
How, exactly, is this "patronizing"?
Jesus