Quote from mixawhat:
also i truly believe in controlling bet size. don't get into the "habit" of believing that if you throw down size you can make back your losses much quicker. WRONG!!! scale down...pick away at it with decreased size...to get CONFIDENCE back. and remember it is part of the business. if you try to throw down size you'll get in a bigger whole much quicker...through commissions and losses. you've got to eliminate the "emotion" when trading.
Fully agree with this. Ditto just like I described how I did it. Controlling bet size is what I do, too when my confidence isn't up to max. No point in trying to push it too much, particularly during the doldrums. Then, once I've done 20-30 good trades again, I'll scale back up slowly and by the end of the day might be back to size and ready to take out the 2pm+ plus action and closing hour. This isn't for always, but certainly when I have a day that starts off with multiple losses. You can choose to just ignore it and soldier on full size - but I tell you, never underestimate the power of your own mind over the outcome of your trades. You better be in a good state.
And by the way I'm talking about "amplitude of mind state" here. NOT emotions!
If you trade with emotions, you're already lost, anyway. You'll be a beginner piker ready to be turned into shark food.
People on this board always tout that it's your own mind that sabotages you. That's bullshit. It's traders who are better (less emotional, more rational) than you, who try to squeeze you as far off course as they can without getting hurt, until you give in because your balls are softer than theirs. That's the reality of trading.
And if you're doing heavily arbed futures, like the ES or worse even, NQ, then add on top of that the 'arb factor', which will at times make it swing even a little wider off course because some fruity is arbing 750 cars against the spooz, although the underlying 'real direction' is still opposite.
This is why you need to get over emotion, as much as you can. Every bit of emotion is an achilles heel to attack your rationalism and will cost you money. If you are still getting excited about wins or frown about losses - you're simply not there and not ready to trade size. Period!
Scientist.