Hi all! I work full time and swing trade on the side, after having some gains, I am feeling afraid to trade and have been procrastinating. I dont want to give what I've won back. Since trading is not my main economic activity I sometimes feel I'm wasting valuable time. This is not really the case since I'm planning on becoming a full time trader some day and I really have a burning desire to evolve as a trader. It is mostly procrastination and fear that keep me from being more disciplined with my trading. I just wanted to hear your comments and suggestions. Thanks!
It goes away. Remember, "These gains are not special"Hi all! I work full time and swing trade on the side, after having some gains, I am feeling afraid to trade and have been procrastinating. I dont want to give what I've won back. Since trading is not my main economic activity I sometimes feel I'm wasting valuable time. This is not really the case since I'm planning on becoming a full time trader some day and I really have a burning desire to evolve as a trader. It is mostly procrastination and fear that keep me from being more disciplined with my trading. I just wanted to hear your comments and suggestions. Thanks!
I am feeling afraid to trade
... Since trading is not my main economic activity I sometimes feel I'm wasting valuable time.
This is not really the case since I'm planning on becoming a full time trader some day and I really have a burning desire to evolve as a trader.
It is mostly procrastination and fear that keep me from being more disciplined with my trading.
You are afraid of losing money which you have earned from trading, that is is reason you are not trading further. keep practicing on demo account with any profitable strategy till the time; when you are in consistence profit for more than 3 months, then again start live trading with more confidence.Hi all! I work full time and swing trade on the side, after having some gains, I am feeling afraid to trade and have been procrastinating. I dont want to give what I've won back. Since trading is not my main economic activity I sometimes feel I'm wasting valuable time. This is not really the case since I'm planning on becoming a full time trader some day and I really have a burning desire to evolve as a trader. It is mostly procrastination and fear that keep me from being more disciplined with my trading. I just wanted to hear your comments and suggestions. Thanks!
I believe the suggestion of Dozu888 is the best and very accurate regarding building the right attitude towards money.This will get better over time, if you try.
Risk tolerance - very related to one's personal belief and up bringing... relationship with money.. are you trading too big positions.
Risk tolerance needs to be trained... overtime you can stomach bigger ups and downs... it's just a number in the account... don't relate it to everyday items like cars vacations houses etc...
To gain you have to learn to give... donate to charities, give a few bucks to every beggar you see... you will have a whole different perspective about money, you will feel how fortunate you are compared to the less fortunate.. you will look at money with less and less significance... it will no longer control you, and you will have less difficulty to pull the trigger.
Wow, thanks. In fact I am training with a martial arts teacher saturdays and sundays at 5 am. Its been hugely beneficial. So discipline is definately the way!The bad news is, for most of us trading full time would not have been possible without some measure of personal development...that's also the good news. Specifically I used meditation and Chinese martial and health practices to help develop the qualities needed. As a day trader, such qualities are magnified. One needs discipline, focus, patience and courage....get to work.