Quote from Discipline:
You made my point more succinctly than I did. I understand taking breaks. I even go to the bathroom once during the trading day. My point was that even if I am not trading every minute I am trying to learn, to prospect for new businesses and to make sure I don't miss out on the few opportunities that present themselves each day.
I agree too with the premise that your work environment needs to not be too tense or even enjoyable. I don't believe that I have some inalienable right to enjoy the work I do to put food on the table for my family. That sense of entitlement has just not reached me yet.
At opne point in my career, early on, I used to play hearts (before they had it on the computer) whenever it got slow. I rationalized it to myself that it was actually making me money because I wasn't getting into illiquid trades at lunch time. After much introspective thought, I realized that that thought process wasn't correct (for me at least).
The problem was getting into illiquid, ill advised trades during slow periods. The solution to avoid that was not playing games. That was not furthering my goal to be the best trader I could be. I needed to reach deep down inside and have the discipline and patience to be able to watch the markets without acting. That is the key to success. To do what is right AND to not do what is wrong. I was willing to put aside the short term satisfaction that comes from playing hearts and winning (video games these days are the equivalent distraction) and get my gratification on the back-end; that is, in the form of a CAREER as an independent trader and entrepreneur. I can come and go as I please. I do take off whenever I like. I can make it to all the basketball games I want to coach. Trading has afforded me quite the lifestyle. Short term gratification is great in the short run. Knowing I never have to get a job and suck up to a boss and work when he wants me to not when I want to because i can trade for a living is more reward than many of you know. It is not about the money. It is about the psychological gratification that trading provides in all facets of my life.