Quote from Lord.Maushi:
To lose 60k you have to allow yourself and your trading to lose 60k.
Trick of this game is to cut losses as soon as they begin to bleed and deplete you. Don't let them take too much of your money. Hope in this game is fear, and fear is hope.
To do the above efficiently you must know when and how to enter, and price must react your way immediately as a sign of acting right, otherwise you bail on a tiny loss.
Evidently, you do not know how to trade that way, so you must stop until you learn. No one will teach you how to do it correctly and whoever promises you to for a small fee is full of it. You can only learn it on your own.
However, the board will likely sympathize with your post as most can identify with your situation.
When I am trading correctly and in the zone I do just what you described, be patient for the right time to enter, look for immediate follow through and bail if that doesn't happen.
Taking any trade, over trading, and over leveraged were the surface causes of the losses but not being in the zone was the underlying cause.
Thanks for your insight.