Quote from ElectricSavant:
Wow...this really stings...
I am learning a lot about myself and I am glad that the OP started this thread.
ES
This is the problem. Why should it sting? The truth will set you free. Why are we so attached to our beliefs and preconceptions that it is painful to listen to a contrary argument?
Eckhart Tolle writes about this in his books. Being attached to our opinions and confusing our beliefs with our identity. Then we look to make ourselves right by proving others wrong. If we are proved wrong, we are personally affronted and feel suffering rather than being pleased to have gained knowledge and understanding.
Making excuses for not doing our own thinking, or ignoring reason when it comes along because we don't like the way the facts are presented to us ... just kidding ourselves. How can self deceit help in trading or in life generally?
This is an opportunity for us all to learn a lot - if we are willing to. Ultimately it appears that this and similar opportunities are passed over by the many on ET: this is yet another thread with the usual replies to the usual beginner fantasy:
-posts about "trading psychology" as if this were a panacea...check
-recommendations for a particular strategy, technique, website or guru...check
-statements that the OP just needs more practice, patience, discipline, or "an edge"...check
-suggestions to change instrument, timeframe, analysis technique, leverage, etc...check
-suggestion to keep taking more trades until the problem micraculously resolves itself...check
-suggestions to perform backtesting, references to statistics and odds...check
-at least one sensible poster remarking that the OP doesn't know enough to be successful...check
-various posters condemning the frank poster as 'rude', 'unhelpful', 'mean spirited', 'discouraging', etc...check
Quote from Matt Houston:
It's not bad as far as dream crushing posts go, personally I prefer"
Now we're debating the relative merits of various posts telling the hopeless to pack it in before they lose more money. Unfortunately, some are so thick skinned that no amount of discouragement will penetrate. Dream crushing for them? Bankruptcy? Divorce? At least the OP isn't quitting his job!