Quote from HATEtheRisk:
Yes, i think this is a good advice.
She goes to work and i stay at home and trade.....
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But for meeting a woman, while searching for the right for a serious realtionship with marriage and children......
at the first date..........
1) if i tell her i am a successfull wealthy finance trader, there can be two reactions, i had so far:
one = oh, oh, oh, you have money, i love you boy....you see it in the eyes, everything changes and she wants you immediately, but she doesnt care about you, she only cares about the money.
And the odds for cheating you later in relationship are very high....
two = Ah, why do you tell me this, i dont care what you do, or how much money you have, you poser. (I = why do you ask then, Shall i lie??)
2) If i tell her a lie, for example, i work in an office desk job for 1,5k ⬠a month.
There are a lot of problems, first: I do work at home, so she will find it out and she will find out what i do and she will guess that my income is bigger than 1,5k ⬠a month.
Also if she finds out, that the house i am living in, is my own.
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I think i have seen a movie once about this subject, just the opposite of "pretty woman".
I must do a break of trading and get an false lifestyle identity, only so i can find out, if she really likes me, for who i am or not.
And later she will come over it, that i have lied to her, after i explained, that this is very important for me, to protect my life against greedy false bitches.
If she is a lady she will understand.
I see no other way. I must really trust the girl, before it becomes serious.
Otherwhise i will get hurt one day very bad.
