I thought forums were to help people!?!?
Forums aren't "to" anything. They're a place where
people can communicate - and while
people usually don't mind, or even like helping others, no one wants to waste their time holding your hand through every little fiddly detail. You can pay someone for that, or you can do it on your own - but I don't know of anyone who is here to teach at the kindergarten level.
I can tell you from personal experience - and I first came in here as a total newbie - that there are many people in this forum who are both knowledgeable and willing to help. But you have to
put in the work, learn the basics, do your best to learn the language... do everything you possibly can to figure it out on your own, and
then reach out. Laziness, especially when it's as evident as "I haven't bothered to read the docs - spoon-feed it to me!", is not rewarded here, or in any other forum I know of.
To quote an apropos take on forum participation from elsewhere:
THIS IS NOT A HELP DESK.
THIS IS A COMMUNITY POTLUCK.
DON'T WHINE BECAUSE SOMEONE DIDN'T BRING ICE CREAM.
DON'T BOGART THE POTATO SALAD.
BRING SOMETHING OCCASIONALLY, YOU BUM. EVEN CHIPS.
DON'T WHINE WHEN SOMEONE SAYS WE DON'T HAVE TABLE SERVICE.
That last one is the one you want, or even think you have a right to have. No, there is no table service [here]. It's all self-serve. Get unlazy, and get all the food you want. It's buffet-style, baby. You gotta do some footwork yourself.
-- Randal L. Schwartz