Stick with your successful, automated system. Stop your other trading; just stop...Keep tweaking your automated system/s(you have a gift/talent: use it and don't take it for granted).
Give 1/4 of the money you would normally lose to charity. Buy an appreciating asset, you know, something that you enjoy and that makes you happy(classic cars/art/gold,bourbon, etc)with 1/4.
Spend the other half on your family(buy a pool, take a trip, rent a cottage, go skiing).
You may become wealthy beyond currency measures...you will feel better, be working on what actually works while not being bothered by all this nonsense...and the rest will heal itself. I believe the odds are on your side and that this will be the best trade(and the LAST) you ever make. This is your edge.
Regret: The one thing that no man can ever afford. I wish you well. Peace to you, my friend.