ABSOLUTELY agree. People today do not how to budget and do not know how to plan to spend. They let peer pressure and media dictate how they live and spend instead of living according to how much they have. I did the same thing when I first started out as well. My first job paid $23K a year and that was a good pay for college graduates back then. There was no way I could afford to rent on my own at the time so I lived with my parents to save until I saved enough for a downpayment on my first home and I moved out of my parents' place. When I was living on my own in my first house, my living budget for the entire month was $150 besides mortgage payments and that included food, clothing, other living expenses and occasional entertainment expenses. And I didn't find it difficult at all.
If you can't afford it, you just don't buy it. Simple. DO NOT let others tell you what you should or should not buy. You should be the one who decides that.
I find renting to be a total ripoff unless you are in one or more of the following situations:
1) You are ultra-rich and really don't care about money
or
2) You are renting to own
or
3) You are in a very temporary living situation where you are only in that place for a very limited amount of time like traveling
or
4) You can make extremely high returns in the asset market that far exceed how much your owned property can appreciate in the real estate market and you are making much more than the rent you pay
otherwise you are throwing away money for nothing. Everything that you spend money on, eventually the thing that you spent your money on comes back to you except renting. When you rent, you are spending money on something that will never come back to you; at the end of the day, you spend all that money and yet you can be kicked out at any moment, none of an inch of a square of the place that you so painstakingly decorated that you call "home" is yours. All those money that you have spent are just gone and gone forever!! And for what? Just a bed to sleep on at night? Cuz that's really what you really need a home for if you think about it, is just a place for you to rest your head when you are tired at night; everything else, you can get it somewhere else. This is why I either stayed with my parents or just bought outright.