The guy has infinitely more experience than I do so I won't claim to speak for him, but I think the argument is that it's a good consolidated risk measure in the sense that you collect theta for selling gamma risk. It might take 3x the position to achieve the same theta farther out, but then it takes 3x the position to achieve the same gamma risk too. Raw position size is clearly not the only measure of risk...
No, that's where you/he is wrong. Gamma will be almost the same with 3x position size...
That's what I mean, it's not as clear cut as you think it is... and therefore, as a risk metric... theta on it's own is almost useless... same goes for th/gamma ratio as a risk metric.
And if I throw in IV shifts... it will be even harder to understand why you have a loss/win...
With options, best is to know what scenario's can happen and use that as a starting point. Then go down the metrics... and then you will better understand theta/gamma/vega.